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I'm Adopted


Classics by Betty Jean Lifton:

Lost and Found : The Adoption Experience
by Betty Jean Lifton

Reprint Edition 
Paperback, 321 pages
List: $13.00 -- Amazon.com Price: $11.70 -- You Save: $1.30 (10%) 
Published by Harpercollins (Paper)
Publication date: February 1,1988

* The essential primer on adoptee issues and search by renowned
author, therapist, adoptee and Bastard National, Betty Jean Lifton. 
Recommended by BN.

Journey of the Adopted Self : A Quest for Wholeness
by Betty Jean Lifton

Reprint Edition 
Paperback
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Published by Basic Books
Publication date: May 1, 1995
* The book which defines the "bastard moment".
This book is a poetic and insightful view into what it means to be adopted.
Recommended by BN

Twice Born : Memoirs of an Adopted Daughter
by Betty Jean Lifton

Hardcover
Published by McGraw-Hill
Publication date: November 1975


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ITHAKA: A Daughter's Memoir of Being Found
by Sarah Saffian
Hardcover
List: $23.00 -- Amazon.com Price: $16.10 -- You Save: $6.90(30%) Published by Basic Books
Publication date: November 1998

A reader from New York City, New York, (March 4, 1999) says:
THE MOST CAPTIVATING AND REAL BOOK I HAVE READ IN YEARS

When I first picked up Sarah Saffian's book, I was unsure about what to expect or what kind of writing I would find. What I sooned learned was that ITHAKA would prove to be one of the most captivating and truthful books I had read in years. Unable to put ITHAKA down, I anticipated each page, each event, with more excitement than the last. Saffian slowly unravelled her story like an old blanket: gentle, familiar, calming. She described her facinating ordeal with a poise and intelligence rarely seen in young authors today. After learning so much about Saffian's life, I felt a kind of sisterhood to her, as her words floated off the page and filled my mind with thoughts and ideas about myself that I had never before considered. A good book will make the reader not only think about the story at hand, but also the story of his or her own life; ITHAKA did just this, with a charm and finesse that made the book nothing less than irresistible.

The Adopted Break Silence
by Jean Paton
Paperback
Published by Orphan Voyage
Publication date: December 1954
Price: $8.00 + $1.35 special surcharge

This is a seminal book on adoption written by the mother of the modern adoptee-rights movement, Jean Paton.

Adoption, Race, and Identity : From Infancy Through Adolescence
by Rita J. Simon, Howard Altstein
List: $49.95
Hardcover
Published by Praeger Pub Text
Publication date: January 1992

The Adoption Reader

Adoption Reader, The : Birth Mothers, Adoptive Mothers, and Adopted Daughters Tell Their Stories
by Susan Wadia-Ells (Editor)

Paperback, 285 pages
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Published by Seal Pr Feminist Pub
Publication date: October 1,1995
The author, Susan Wadia-Ells, adopt@sover.net, 11/18/96: The first feminist book on adoption & a literary anthology The Adoption Reader contains essays and stories by birth mothers, adoptive mothers and adopted daughters. These diverse stories of women's lives illustrate how women have moved through their adoption journeys in order to name and claim their whole lives. The thirty essays written by well known authors such as Louise Erdrich, Nancy Mairs, Shay Youngblood, and Florence Fisher, along with many less established writers, cover topics such as: open adoption; international adoption; lesbian families; single parent adoptions; bi-racial adoptees; reunions; open records; special needs children and foster parenting. This is a wonderful "gift book" for birth mothers, adoptees, adoptive families and for clinicians and administrators in the adoption field. The book has been favorably reviewed by major adoption organizations (AAC, Adoption, PACT, Roots & Wings, Chain of Life, etc) and by academic/women's studies journals alike. [Library Journal, The Women's Review of Books, etc]. The Women's Press just issued the British Edition of the book in September, 1996. This has become the best-selling book at adoption conferences nation-wide and is being "adopted" by women's literature and family studies courses through-out the USA and Canada. BN Recommended.
Second Choice: Growing Up Adopted

Second Choice : Growing Up Adopted
by Robert Andersen

Paperback
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Published by Badger Hill Press; 
ISBN: 0963264842 
Publication Date: February 1993

An Adopted Woman
by Katrina Maxtone-Graham

Hardcover
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Published by Remi Books
Publication date: March 1983

Being Adopted

Being Adopted : The Lifelong Search for Self

by David M. Brodzinsky, Marshall D. Schechter, Robin Marantz Henig
Paperback, 213 pages
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Publication date: April 1, 1993

Where Courage Is Like a Wild Horse : The World of an Indian Orphanage
by Sharon Skolnick, Manny Skolnick

Hardcover
Published by Univ of Nebraska Press
Publication date: January 1998

Outer Search, Inner Journey Outer Search, Inner Journey: An Orphan and Adoptee's Quest
by Peter Dodds
Paperback, 280 pages
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"We urge anyone involved with cultural issues to read this book. Dodds's description of his life is open, honest and painful. He writes smoothly, with no sentiments or regrets or self-pity. Well-written, thought provoking and intelligent."
--- Adoption Today

"Thought provoking and brutally honest, this book is a disquieting look into international adoption as well as a glimpse into a tortured soul. Peter's story is a moving examination of a life-long struggle to escape from a cultural and emotional no-man's-land." --- German Life

Butterflies in the Wind : Spanish/Indian Children With White Parents
by Jean Nelson-Erichsen, Heino R. Erichsen

List: $18.00
Paperback
Published by Los Ninos Intl
Publication date: May 1992

Designing Rituals of Adoption : For the Religious and Secular Community
by Mary Martin Mason, Daryl Parks
Paperback
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Published by Resources for Adoptive Parents
Publication date: May 1995

Far from the Reservation; The Transracial Adoption of American Indian Children
by David Fanshel

Availability: This title is out of print, but if you place an order we may be able to find you a used copy within 1-3 months. 
Published by Scarecrow Pr
Publication date: January 1972

Growing Up Adopted
by Maxine Rosenberg

1st Ed.
School & Library Binding
Published by MacMillan Pub Co
Publication date: September 1989

The Home : A Memoir of Growing Up in an Orphanage
by Richard McKenzie

Hardcover
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Published by Basic Books
Publication date: February 1,1996

Love Leaves No Regrets : An Insightful View of Displaced Children Through the Eyes of a Former Foster Child
by Robert Colwell

Hardcover
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Published by Duncan & Duncan
Publication date: April 1,1996

The Psychology of Adoption
by David M. Brodzinsky, Marshall D. Schechter (Editor)
Paperback, 416 pages
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Published by Oxford Univ Press
Publication date: December 1993

Second Choice : Growing Up Adopted
by Robert Andersen

Paperback
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Published by Badger Hill Press
Publication date: February 1993

Tell Me No More Secrets, No More Lies : Life As an Adoptee
by Ginni D. Snodgrass
Paperback
List: $10.95 -- Amazon.com Price: $10.95 
Published by G. S. Enterprise
Publication date: December 1990


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Make sure you've checked out this excellent FREE resource on searching: Shea's Search Series. Download, cut and paste, print out - whatever you do, read it and learn!

Shea Grimm's Search Series

  1. Deciding to Search
  2. Getting Started on your Search
  3. Documents
  4. I Have a Name - Now What?
  5. Choices in Searching
  6. Petitioning the Court to Open Your Adoption File

Books on searching you can purchase

Search : A Handbook for Adoptees and Birthparents
by Jayne Askin

Paperback - 352 pages 
3rd edition (August 1998) 
List: $24.50 -- Amazon.com Price: $24.50
Published by Oryx Press 

Now in its third edition, this widely acclaimed resource provides an honest and detailed guide for adoptees and their birthparents. Drawing from personal experience as well as from extensive research, author Jayne Askin presents creative ways to overcome obstacles and attack problems that occur during the search process. New to this edition is coverage of the dramatic advances that have been made in the area of electronic search methods for adoptees and birthparents, and Askin clearly explains how even the most novice computer users can access them. State-by-state listings of adoption laws have also been completely updated, as have the addresses and contact information for the numerous groups, organizations, and other resources featured in the book.

Adopted? : A Canadian Guide for Adopted Adults in Search of Their Origins
by Clare Marcus

Paperback
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Published by Intl Self Counsel Press
Publication date: June 1979

Adoption Reunions : A Book for Adoptees, Birth Parents and Adoptive Families
by Michelle McColm

Paperback
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Published by Second Story Press
Publication date: December 1993

Adoption Searches Made Easier
by Joseph J. Culligan

Paperback
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Published by Fja Inc.
Publication date: November 1996

Adoption Searcher's Handbook : A Guidebook for Adoptees, Birth Parents & Other Involved in the Adoption Search
by Norma Tillman

Paperback
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Published by Diane Pub. Co.
Publication date: March 1994

Are You My Father? : Adventures in the Risky Business of Adoption
by John T. Gatto, Briseis Gatto

Hardcover
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Published by Smith & Varina Pub.
Publication date: January 1990

Birthbond : Reunions Between Birthparents and Adoptees - What Happens After...
by Judith S. Gediman

Reprint Edition 
Paperback
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Published by New Horizon Pr
Publication date: May 1,1991

Birth Mother Search : Someday I'll Find Her : The True Story of One Woman's Success in Locating Her Birth Mother
by E.B. Schumacher

Paperback
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Published by Larksdale Press
Publication date: May 1993

Birthright : The Guide to Search and Reunion for Adoptees, Birthparents, and Adoptive Parents
by Jean A. S. Strauss

Paperback
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Published by Penguin USA (Paper)
Publication date: June 1,1994

Synopsis: In 1983, the author--herself an adoptee--began her search for her birth mother. In this inspiring new handbook, she shares her experiences and helps searchers map out their own step-by-step journeys that will help empower and support them throughout this trying and significant time.

Dear Birthfather
by Randolph W. Severson
Paperback
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Published by Hope Cottage
Publication date: June 1992

Finding Family
by Rick Ouston
Paperback
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Published by New Star Books
Publication date: November 1994

Gathering the Missing Pieces in an Adopted Life
by Kay Moore

Paperback, 201 pages
List: $11.99 -- Amazon.com Price: $11.99 
Published by Broadman & Holman Pub
Publication date: January 1,1995

Missing Links : The True Story of an Adoptee's Search for His Birth Parents
by Vincent J. Begley
Paperback
List: $9.95-- Amazon.com Price: $9.95 + $0.85 special order surcharge
Published by Claycomb Press
Publication date: February 1991

Reunion : The Search for My Birth Family
by Madelene Allen

Hardcover
List: $19.95 -- Amazon.com Price: $19.95 
Published by Boston Mills Pr
Publication date: May 1994

The author, Madelene Allen http://www.login.net/inverc, 11/02/96: Proven search handbook -12 known reunions as result of book. A thoughtful story of a seven year Canadian search. It takes the reader through not only the trials and tribulations of living as an adoptee but looks at the history and psychology of adoption. Most important part of the book is the FOCUS on HOW to USE non-identifying information. Each piece is a clue which if used correctly can lead towards reunion. Bibliograby, addresses.

So Here I Am! but Where Did I Come From? : An Adoptee's Search for Identity
by Mary Ruth Wotherspoon

Hardcover, 206 pages
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Published by Pate Pub.
Publication date: May 1,1994
Synopsis: The author shares with readers the account of her search for her natural parents and offers ways to help others understand the process, and what to expect in their own quests. 71 halftone photos. 1 color illustration.

Stories of Adoption : Loss and Reunion
by Eric Blau

1 Edition 
Paperback, 131 pages
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Published by Newsage Pr
Publication date: April 1,1993

The Great Adoptee Search Book
by Jean A. Strauss

Paperback
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Published by Castle Rock Pub. Co.
Publication date: October 1990

The Stranger Who Bore Me : Adoptee-Birth Mother Interactions
by Karen March

Library Binding, 128 pages
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Published by Enslow Pub.
Publication date: September 1,1990

Where Are My Birth Parents? : A Guide for Teenage Adoptees
by Susan Fischer, Karen Gravelle

Hardcover, 132 pages
List: $14.95 -- Amazon.com Price: $14.95 
Published by Walker & Co
Publication date: June 1,1993

Card catalog description: Discusses how and why adopted children may try to locate and get to know their birth parents and examines possible psychological benefits and problems associated with the process.
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